Be a Man? Theory of ‘Weche-ism"

Take a piss if you will, but face it when it is real; When you’re a woman, your definition of ‘Be a man’ to whichever male you know, is both stereotypic, discriminatory and offensive…

Having said that, I can now give some flesh to the above stated theory (Kindly note that all theorists of modern times made a name for themselves for expounding on an already known truth, and mystify it by giving it some name like ‘Wecheism’, which is the name of this). I find it offensive for someone who has not carried the burden of manhood for one single second of their life, to say that even to an infant who is born male. It is a burden, both literally and… well, not literally. The ultimate definition of be a man is basically baggage down a mans trousers; Gay, un-gay, straight, crooked, for as long as it exists in realism down there, then you can as well sip porridge rather than waste your breath saying what is evident. Basically it’s like walking to a cup full of water and telling it to have some water, which is absurd and abnormal. That is just how skewed that statement sounds when it comes from a lady. Secondly, I invite you all to start living reality rather than simulacras. You cannot just wake up from sweet slumber and start building a flying door because you saw it in your dream. Simulacra. For women especially, that statement comes from a predefined, preset and envisioned description of what being a man is like. Where from? Everywhere. First, they watch a lot of what Alejandro did to win Paloma’s heart and how in the midst of that, he fought off competition from some Rafael somewhere. An entire Mexican vocabulary of manhood exists in their heads. You know it’s vocabulary when they cannot switch to manhood for even a minute of their lives, yet they can passionately describe to you what they want from a man. Secondly, I am not your father woman. I am not, have not, will not and cannot be your father. I imagine these ladies who have seen their dad’s doing everything for them and they start drawing comparison. That is an endless fathom which once you pit yourself into, delivering you will need a crusade of Prophet Owuors, notable, seven of them. You will go around the world looking for someone like your father and all you will find is your father. Surely even my own daughter or son (God keep them in waiting) will appreciate me even if I were some drunken bloke begging for coins from street beggars. So it is morally wrong to ask a man to be a man, because your description of a man is confined by your experience of a father. Third, their description also comes from expectation… I can name seven thirteen ladies whom I totally know their description of the men they deserve. Tall, dark/light, charming, built body (Curse you who put this pressure on us), and so on and so forth. I pity women who look at screens and Drool over Idris Elba, yet for all we know he could be some wife batterer somewhere in his seclusion. Keyword, could. Fellow men when you date and someone knows when they want to get married, those are the ladies your father and mother told you to avoid. Avoid, because they know what they want from you and every time they ask you to be a man, it is a cajoling statement. Look here, not all men love soccer, others love rugby and table tennis. Not all men know how to dance or even want to dance (I am not stating my case). Not all men can play the guitar or anything you desire to have played. Not all men can fix electric faults. Not all men do all you have in mind… In any case we never asked to be men, so we can as well be the men we want to be. Generally, that whole melee of throwing ‘be a man’ statements to our face is a sign of disappointment when someone does not fit your bill… You cannot order food and draw your own bill… No, someone else does. So you are left with two choices, take what you have, or join Johnny Walker. Or tell them to be your man… like “Be my man”… I’d rather my baby brother, who has the gift of manhood in his pants, telling me to be a man. Moan all you want, but that’s that. Take a piss, be a man. Later.

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